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OK,
let's do some talking!
The reason for putting
this page here is to help people like me (including me!)
realize their fetish and way of thinking. I do not have
the answers. But with your help and opinion, we might
get into some results. Some questions that really bother
me:
1) Why do we feel so attracted to
female feet?
2) When did it begin ?
3) Is there a connection between
the way we grew up and the foot fetish?
4) Should we hide our
preferences, or just feel free to enjoy?
5) How important is it to satisfy
our needs ?
6) Can we live without it ?
Visitors'
views
1)
Why do we feel so attracted to female feet?
David's view
I feel that we are attracted to female
feet because they are hidden from us. Curiosity draws
our attention to that which we cannot see or touch.
Frank's view
It's just on of those grand universe
things in the universe, that you accept... cause it
would drive you mad if you ever learned the truth. Don't
be ashamed. It's something that makes you unique. It
makes me unique.
Pedic's view
I really don't know yet (sorry!). I find a
female foot most beautiful, intriguing even inviting!
The shape is perfect, movement is perfect, well
everything on it is perfect.
Matthew's
View
For me, there is nothing more beautiful
than the subtle forms and curves of a female foot. It is
a living work of art. I have spent years collecting
images of well formed, delicate feet. What surprises me
still is HOW MUCH the sight of the foot arouses my
interest (and other things). It could be described as an
obsession, and I revel in it like nothing else. That
question I may never know the answer to.
2) When did it
begin ?
David's view
I think it began, for us as a civilization,
when shoes were invented!
Frank's view
Look at Greek stories: these ALOT of
sexual innuendo... and of course when they talked about
the female gods, the always called them by name and add
the epitaph... "of the lovely ankles". To tell you the
truth I don't know when its started. There IS a web site
that did deal with foot fetish (really foot sex, I
think) and tracked it through history. I can't remember
the url... but I will drop you a line. (I wasn't
Bullshitting about the Greek plays... check 'em out..
GOOD reading!) The Greeks did everything... and the
Romans assimilated that...
Pedic's view
I think same time as sex was invented. It
must be old as the human race. But people never bothered
keeping statistical records in the old days.
Matthew's View
There have always
been foot fetishists, and the foot has been revered
throughout history. Several cultures document practices
which involve the foot. In many instances the foot is a
direct link to the sexual organs (smaller feet on a
woman being linked to a tight vagina, large feet on a
man representing his length). Reflexology, foot-binding,
and foot jewelry have all been examples of the
significant place the foot has in our sexual practice.
3) Is there a
connection between the way we grew up and the foot
fetish?
David's view
I've read that small children associate a
parent's lower limbs with comfort and security, because
as a toddler your closer to a parent's legs and frankly,
small children can't really looks their folks in the
face, and I'm sure you've seen a child clinging to a
parent's leg. So, maybe its a longing for that comfort
that one felt when they were only "knee high".
Frank's view
Hmmmmmmmm..... I had foot surgery when I
was young... that's pretty traumatizing for a five year
old... also, again when I was young there was a woman
that was very pretty, and she had spaghetti string
sandals on.. (very popular in the sixties) I couldn't
stop staring at her feet, and her cute toes. I guess she
was my first crush, I was only seven though. She help me
learn to walk again.
Pedic's view
Some Psychologists believe that there is
such a connection. I'm not a doctor, but I think that
maybe something happened when we were kids, or maybe it
was something we saw, felt, heard. I haven't found my
"something" (if there is any) yet.
Matthew's View
This is one I have spent MUCH of my time
answering, and that answer is yes. I grew up in a
Catholic family which looked down upon my sexual
exploration. Sex was something to keep behind closed
doors in a committed relationship. Masturbation was the
tool of the Devil to tempt me away from God. Rather than
become trapped in sin, I began to focus lower and found
the feet. God could not damn me for looking at this part
of a woman's body, AND it was a body part which I could
see often, enabling me to enjoy my sexual thoughts
without ANYONE else knowing. It was my secret pleasure.
I've since grown beyond any of these fears of eternal
damnation, but the ideas were ingrained, and I now take
GREAT pleasure from these feelings.
4) Should we hide
our preferences, or just feel free to enjoy?
David's view
I feel that their is a right time and right
place for everything. Could you imagine walking into a
bar wearing a T-shirt stating: "I WANT TO LICK AND SUCK
YOUR FEET"! You'd be thrown out on your ear. I believe
that when you meet some one you love ( as you have) you
should be able to open up and talk about what makes you
happy. Imagine having NEVER told your wife about this!
How frustrated would you be.
Frank's view
I've only revealed my "secret" to a
handful in my life time. Two couldn't understand the
connection... two thought it was cute and adorable...
one indulged me, and loved to tease me with her feet,
and watch me squirm... another found it interesting and
wanted to explore that aspect with me, but she backed
out because she felt strange having a guy massage and
kiss her feet.... It up to you how you feel. I think
it's a matter of personal choice. If you want to be open
about it, go ahead. Jut look at
CC dude! Man, he'll go up to any woman on the
street, and ask if he can take pictures, kiss, suck on a
woman's toes, or have their soles on his face. It's up
to you.
Pedic's view
Let's face it. The only people who can
understand us, are people like us (foot fetishists). All
the rest cannot understand our preferences. Even the
people who love us, can only tolerate our thoughts.
Sometimes this is just enough. So we'd better be careful
when we "open" our hearts (and tastes) to anybody. Just
be discrete and careful. You see most people look at you
as something weird, when you don't follow the "general
rules".
Matthew's View
Never hide it, is what I say. I did this
for years, and I felt shame every time I thought someone
might suspect my desires. The last two years I have been
open and honest about it, and I have received acceptance
and understanding. It's such a natural part of the human
mind to adapt and grow. After all, we would be a pretty
dull race of beings if we all had the SAME desires and
the SAME needs.
5) How important
is it to satisfy our needs ?
David's view
It's important to satisfy it in a way that
isn't viewed as perverted. Like, stealing shoes,
hosiery, or even socks, people who act out in this
manner only make us ,who harbor these urges, look like
sexual deviants. But, when I meet a girl who is into
having her feet rubbed and kissed, man, I'm on it!!;)
(I'm single...not cheating)
Frank's view
Again, it how far you feel to go. If you
need the urge to touch a female foot... if you need a
foot job, it how you feel inside. If your content
kissing the arch of a beautiful foot. Hey, it's your
choice you feelings. My preference however must remain
locked away for my lovers eyes and feet only... sorry,
no free story here. ;o) heheheheeh
Pedic's view
I think it's important to satisfy our
needs somehow. It's a matter of life and mental
stability. How often do we say "God these feet drive me
crazy". You might be able to bury your desire for some
time, but not for long. And believe me, if you keep it
buried, it hurts A LOT! The most important thing to
remember is that we shouldn't do anything that our
partner(s) could not tolerate. We have to find a golden
route, to keep both satisfied. Very often we have to
compromise. Of course, if your partner shares the same
fantasies, or likes to be treated as you like to treat
him, then you have the perfect match.
Matthew's View
I believe this is very important. As I say
above, we have nothing to be ashamed of, and we should
be proud to express our feelings when we feel like it.
Having the number of webpages devoted to feet that there
are is a sign that this is true. Foot friends everywhere
can connect with each other and help to bring these
feelings to reality. I wouldn't be SANE if I could not
satisfy these needs.
6) Can we live
without it ?
David's view
Live without it!...NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Frank's view
Can you live without sex? Yes, you can,
but it's awfully, AWFULLY difficult. Can you live
without a female foot fetish? Possibly, but sexy feet
and sexy sandals, and sexy colored toes usually turn up
everyday, so it would be awfully difficult. I wouldn't
though. It's a part of you, and it's up to you if you
wish to explore it.
Pedic's view
As long as you feel the urge for the
female foot, don't try to fight it altogether. It really
hurts! I've tried it some time ago and it was really
painful. In fact, sometimes it leads your sexual life.
If you don't have it, then you don't possibly think of
normal sex. It's like being in a desert for some days
without water. You miraculously find a glass of fresh
water only to discover that you shouldn't drink it. What
could you do ?
Matthew's View
Never. That would be like requiring your
brain to stop thinking about chocolate, or going to the
movies, or ANY normal activity. It is a part of WHO we
are, and we cannot live without even the smallest part
of ourselves. We are who we are.
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