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A detailed Q&A About Foot Lover's Interests
Many people without an interest in
feet certainly have an interest in finding out what the foot-lover sees
in feet. This discussion involves only men's answers, however, be aware
that women also have an interest in feet in the same ways as men do.
Keep in mind, too, that most men keep their love of feet secret, whereas
woman are more open about it. What man would turn down an attractive
lady's foot, whether the man is a foot lover or not?
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When did you first realize you were drawn to women's feet? How long and
what events took place for this to evolve into an erotic/sexual desire?
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Why feet?
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Putting aside BSDM element, are the feet alone, enough or do you
desire/ need other elements such as shoes, socks, pedicure,
smell...? If so list them and explain why.
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In 3-5 sentences each, describe your top 2 foot fantasy scenarios.
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Rate your foot fetish. Do you consider yourself a novice, someone
who is moderately into feet, a connoisseur ... ?
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In offering advice to first time ladies, Turn-Offs & Turn-On's:
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Is there anything about YOUR desires for feet that are important for
your partner to know?
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What is the one thing you'd say to describe your love of feet and to
bring about a widespread understanding of your interest to someone
who does not have a foot fetish?
Posted by (Member # 6829)
When I was 9, or 10. No
single incident, just a general attraction to feet.
Posted by (Member # 26926)
Elementary school, I'd
say around 4th or 5th grade... When I was about 10 years old..
Posted by (Member # 6635)
These are hard for me
to remember... I realized i was drawn to women's feet i think when i
started to have sexual feelings for girls, around 5th grade. so i
guess nothing evolved really, the first signs of arousal i ever had
were seeing girls wearing short shorts, seeing their legs and most
especially seeing their feet in sandals, after 5th grade around 6-8
i was strongly into it and was always scoping out girls in class
playing with their shoes, (crossed legs and dangling, slipping on
and off rapidly, taking their feet out of their shoes and flexing
them around etc.) and in the puberty days this just drove me so
nuts, and i always knew it was different than what all my other
buddies would talk about with sexual connotations so i was totally
quiet about it.
Posted by (Member # 983)
I
remember being attracted to female feet before I even liked girls,
so I was something like five or six years old when I first noticed.
I don't think there was ever some kind of "evolutionary process" to
make it happen, it just seemed to always be around. If there was a
series of events that made it happen or helped it along I sure don't
remember them. I used to think it was because of my extraordinarily
hot and sexy neighbor who ran all over creation on her bare feet
that did it, but then, if the desire wasn't around to begin with it
stands to reason that I wouldn't have noticed her lack of footwear.
Posted by (Member # 2627)
It has been so long for me,
since early childhood. I can remember being attracted to the feet of
a woman who used to babysit me when I was 2-3 years old and feeling
some very strange and strong feelings towards them. I couldn't put
it into words back then. However, I couldn't deny that what I felt
was pretty powerful and arousing.
Posted by
(Member # 2489)
I was young. Maybe 3 or 4 years old. I too was
attracted to my baby sitters feet. Most of my baby sitters took off
their socks because feet went naked in the summer since it's not
cold out. So the babysitters came to the house sockless and that was
the best part for me. An overwhelming feeling like being really
excited and aroused would be felt in my stomach area. I thought it
was weird and it was only with nice feet, especially painted toes
(and that same feeling happened when i saw boobs for the first time
[Smile] )
Posted by (Member # 1570)
As I
headed into puberty when I was in my pre-teens (11-12ish). I became
aware of my sexual attraction to feet and arousal by feet while
visiting a community pool almost daily during the summers. I noticed
that I loved: - looking at the beautiful curves of a girl's
feet (the shape of their toes, arches and wrinkly soles) and
seeing their wet toeprints on the pool deck when they hopped out
of the water.
- seeing wet skin, especially wet feet.
- seeing women and girls wear sandals, especially thong sandals
or flip-flops, thereby "showing off" their feet (though they
were not as nearly as popular and wide-spread as they are today)
- Seeing girls barefoot, especially when they were barefoot in
unusual (barefoot in the grocery store) or uncomfortable
situations (walking barefoot through the cold rain or across hot
pavement)
- anklets. I saw my first anklets on a pair of twins girls. They
were made from black/tan leather. I not only loved the way it
looked on the ankle, but also that it made the other ankle
(without the anklet) look even barer. (This was well before toe
rings were worn, which I instantly fell in love with when they
became popular). Foot jewelry drives me wild.
Posted by (Member # 2953)
when i started watching
porno movies. the scenes where the girls showed feet were the only
scene i wanted to see..... over and over again. i was about sixteen.
Posted by (Member # 20084)
I can remember
asking babysitters to smell their feet at the age of five. Most of
them probably thought I was a silly kid, so they said yes. From age
five on, I have loved female feet.
Posted by
(Member # 223)
I Was 7 years old and loved to smell my female
cousin’s feet and footwear.
Posted by
(Member # 13264)
Probably 2 or 3. Sexually around 7 or 8.
Posted by (Member # 2895)
I realized I had a weakness
for feet in first grade. nothing sexual.. just an adrenaline rush
around pretty feet. didn't pay it too much mind. IN second grade..
the awareness became more noticeable and the distractibility
increased and a teacher pointed it out to me that i daydreamed
whenever her shoes came off. after that.. i played it much closer attention
as to not get caught.
somewhere around the 5th grade... the idea that feet are sexual
started to take shape. one of two key events.. a teacher propped
her feet on the chair in front of my desk and i could smell her
feet (they were close). i thought she was hot too. second event
was similar also, but not in school. a friend of my mom's came
over the house.. and my mom asked me to get her slippers. and
trying to be cute. i took off her shoes for her. the scent and
sight hit me hard in a most peculiar sense.. one that i'd later
realize was sexual in nature.
through much understanding and self-study... i've come to grip
with my interest... and now i'm not so 'taken' and 'striken' by
the sight of feet. however.. the interest hasn't changed. just
the novelty associated with not knowing has worn some.. and is
not replaced with a mature appreciation and comfort in that
knowledge.
Posted by (Member # 6786)
Very young. I was
watching "Sesame Street" and they counted to 10 on a girl's toes, if
that helps.
Posted by (Member # 6641)
I was about 3-4 years old when i first discovered my interest in
them, it was through one of my sisters friends who used to come to
our house frequently and i found her attractive, anyways, one
particular instance, she was sitting barefoot, and that caught my
eye, I had dreams later a few dreams of her strokin my footsies with
her toes, the thought of this turned my interest into a sexual
desire and i wanted to experience that feel, for real.
Posted by (Member # 6829)
I have no idea! I guess
it's just an "irrational" urge that I have.
Posted by (Member # 26926)
Can't tell. I just liked them, feet just
attracted me. I even ask myself today why feet?
Posted by (Member # 6635)
To be
honest when I'm asked why feet? as in there is an intuitive reason i
have no idea. i have been sexually aroused by women's feet ever
since i can remember, and that in itself has always been beyond my
control and totally intuitive so i have no answer to why i like
women's feet. i guess now at age 23 i can describe things i LIKE
about women's feet, such as the teasing nature they seem to have to
me without women seeming to even know it, (and sometimes i think
they do) and all the things that make them so feminine like nail
polish, the smaller size, softness, etc....
Posted by (Member # 983)
I honestly don't know...and believe you me
I used to beat myself up over it all through my teenage years. Now I
see it for what it is...a blessing and a curse at the same time.
Blessing 99% of the time, and a curse about 1% of the time...curse
meaning an otherwise attractive girl will get shot down
aesthetically if her feet aren't pretty as well.
Posted by (Member # 2627)
Why not feet? Every guy has
a part of a woman's body that "does it" for him or turns him on.
Society seems to dictate what is supposedly "normal" for guys to be
attracted to on a woman, with boobs and butt being the most common.
Although most guys are predisposed to being attracted to those body
parts naturally, society further validates it to the point that
being attracted to almost anything else is deemed "weird". It's a
pretty narrow-minded way of looking at things, in my opinion.
*** Good Answer Award ***
I think asking a guy who's into feet "Why feet?" is like
asking a gay or lesbian person "Why are you gay/lesbian?" I think they can't
explain it for themselves. It's just a part of who they are and a
part of their sexuality. I didn't wake up one day and say to myself,
"Gee, I think the conventional way most guys look at a woman's body
and what they are attracted to and aroused by is a little bit too
vanilla for me. I think I'll make a change and start getting aroused
by women's feet." It's not a conscious decision. It's something
that's a part of me that ended up being brought out somehow and not
any kind of premeditated decision on my part.
Posted by (Member # 2489)
I used to ask myself the
same question. Why do I have wet dreams about feet? What the hell is
this. I was so worried as to why this was. I even tried to get it
out of my head but I would always have to look. I seriously thought
something was wrong. but thanks to the internet and some other
media, I realized that I wasn't the only one.
Posted by (Member # 1570)
A question all of us would
love to answer, but most of us only can roughly theorize an answer
to. I really have no idea.
Posted by (Member
# 2953)
don't really know how to answer that one; because they
turn me on and i love everything about them, from the look to the
smell.
Posted by (Member # 20084)
I love
feet for several reasons. I love the pedicured toenails, and the
fact that they can be ticklish.
Posted by
(Member # 223)
I find feet so sexy – mostly the way they look
but also the way they smell.
Posted by
(Member # 13264)
I think it was just a general attraction to the
typical 20-something woman's body. At the time feet were the only
thing that was usually covered up that I would occasionally see
exposed.
Posted by (Member # 2895)
that
question to me reads.. why do I like women. I just do. Everything
visually about a woman appeals to me. breast.. feet.. butts..
legs... toned arms... beautiful faces.. long hair.. short hair.
women period appeals to me. feet a bit more.. because I feel it's more
original than saying you like breast. most all Americans like
either breast or butts. (depending on a few factors)... the
saying goes. feet... more original.
it takes a mature sensitive manly man to appreciate feet
comfortably... is what i tell myself.
Posted by (Member # 6786)
No idea. I've wondered.
Maybe it's because everyone else thinks they're ugly. I quite trying
to figure it out.
Posted by (Member # 6641)
Because I love footsie, the lovely feeling of a woman's feet
stroking my soles up and down with her toes is absolutely fantastic!
Posted by (Member # 6829)
Feet, alone. I do enjoy
seeing girls in hose (without shoes); I like the way they change the
coloration of feet.
Posted by (Member #
26926)
Feet alone can do it but I like pedicured, clean feet with
jewelry.
Posted by (Member # 6635)
to
this one, the feet alone are enough for me. but i like several other
elements. in fact more accurate would be that the feet alone do not
do it as much for me unless i see the whole girl and her face, etc.,
just nothing but feet at all are not all that attractive to me in
most circumstances... i love to see women playing around
with their shoes, because it seems so teasing, i get to see their
feet and see them wiggling around and scrunching their soles, (a
foot show if you will). i am incredibly turned on by women baring
their feet no matter what shoes they are wearing.. like i love
sandals and flip flops when girls are playing with them, dangling
them etc., but if i see a girl with sneakers and no socks lets say,
and i turn around and see that she has her legs crossed with one
sneaker tossed aside and her bare foot swinging around freely i am
done for...
Posted by (Member # 983)
It
depends on the girl. Personally speaking, I could care less about
things like shoes, socks, and smell (I'm not a sniffer, so stinky
feet instantly turn me off). Pedicures are optional because, like I
say, it all depends on the girl. Some girls "need" painted toes,
others are fine without them. I do however really love dirty soles.
Not dirty as in stinky or messy, but rather a dusty kind of
dirt...the kind a girl gets when she simply doesn't wear shoes. And
of course foot jewelry...I love it! It's not a necessity per se', I
just dig it to no end when I see a girl wearing any of it.
Posted by (Member # 2627)
I've never really been into
the whole BDSM thing at all. I think that's a false idea people have
when it comes to guys who have a foot fetish. Just because most
people look at the act of kissing the feet as submissive, they think
people with a foot fetish are submissive when, in fact, that's not
the case for everyone. In fact, I consider myself to be dominant
when it comes to a situation involving a woman's feet by taking
control and letting her know exactly what I want through my actions.
Feet can be enough to satisfy my desire. However, I do like things
that make women's feet look attractive such as high heeled shoes,
nylons, toe rings, anklets, etc.. I do prefer women who get
pedicures and paint their toenails but it's not always necessary,
just so long as her feet look good. Smell can be a factor for some,
but not overly so for me. I don't mind a little bit of foot smell.
Posted by (Member # 2489)
All I need is a sweet pair
of symmetrical, well taken care of feet with painted toes. Bare toes
don't always do it for me. I guess that's why i have never been a
fan of the French pedicure. Other elements such as the smell are a
bonus. Shoes are a great way to display the foot, as long as they
compliment the foot. But the foot itself will do.
Posted by (Member # 1570)
I have a strong attraction
to barefeet, feet in sandals and flip-flops, and certain styles of
thong/strappy sandals alone. There is always the question of whether
one is truly in the bonds of a fetish or just a strong attraction
to. I seem to be fighting a true fetish, as many times I need to see
and/or feel my wife's barefeet or footwear in order to get aroused,
stay aroused and even climax. Footwear, foot jewelry, pedicures just
add to the attraction and desire most of the time.
Posted by (Member # 2953)
feet smell and look are
what i love about feet.
Posted by (Member #
20084)
Yes, for me, seeing a girl's feet can be enough for
arousal.
Posted by (Member # 223)
All
additions to the feet are welcome stockings, toe polish and yes
stinky ness!
Posted by (Member # 13264)
I've
noticed that while there are different sub genres of the fetish, the
major divide is between those looking at feet as something to be
submissive to and "Other" I suppose I'm "Other" as I don't desire to
be submissive to feet. I'm not much on smell or socks either. I
mostly find the form of the female foot erotic and find its innate
sensitivity fascinating. I like that stimulating it causes an
intense reaction, much like any of a woman's other erogenous zones.
Posted by (Member # 2895)
depending on the feet. that
can be it. but i love hosed feet... it's like candy
wrapping that can be removed to enjoy the candy anytime you
want.
i am a huge fan of tall high heel pumps. the taller the better.
gives the foot a very erotic shape.... and scent (at times)
I'm not too picky on pedicures.. but when I do let myself get
picky.. french pedi with most hose and bare is the way to go..
but with black sheer hose... red nails is the way to rock!
socks are no good.. blocks the essential view of the foot. gotta
see the foot (although I'll tolerate thin socks)
I don't like stinky feet. just fragrances feet or no-smell
feet.. so a little sweat.. (musk scent prefered....) mixed with
perfume.. scent of nylon and leather from the shoe.. yeah.. i'm
in the zone.
Posted by (Member # 6786)
Feet will do. A lot
depends on the feet and especially who they're attached to. When I
look at pix, i like to see the girl's face.
Posted by (Member # 6641)
Obviously the woman is important to me as
my special person who i care about the most, but if we are just
talking about feet then i'm not really into anything else like shoes
or socks or nothing. I do however like a woman to dress up in a sort
of authority figure or business woman when shes barefoot.
Posted by (Member # 6829)
a. I love seeing girls
put their feet in different substances--mud, oil, chocolate syrup,
grapes, etc. Nothing disgusting, though--ie, body fluids! b. I guess
I'd love to see large groups of women barefooted together.
Posted by (Member # 26926)
Since I like jewelry,
fantasy is seeing feet with ring on every toe and ankle bracelets
around every ankle. And second fantasy...a girl who loves foot play
more than I do. [Wink]
Posted by (Member #
6635)
this is hard for me as i don't have definite specific
unchanging fantasies at any given moment, so im gonna have to not
follow the rules on this im afraid, all i can say is that i would
love to be out on a date with a girl and have her kick off her shoe
as she's talking to me/flirting with me, and start rubbing her foot
on my leg and then up in between my legs like in movies, lolll
Posted by (Member # 983)
Barefoot damsels in
distress, and that can encompass hundreds of different fantasies.
Just take a girl, put her in a compromising scenario, have her
barefoot, and I'm a happy guy. The artwork on Chaingang Girls from
Tibool and DeLucena is an easy way to get a good idea of what turns
my crank in the fantasy realm. Just keep in mind if you view it that
it's all fantasy and isn't meant to promote violence toward women.
Posted by (Member # 2627)
Fantasy #1 - A woman and I
go out to a rather fancy restaurant. We're all dressed up and the
tablecloths at each table go all the way to the floor so no one can
see underneath them. During our meal as we sit across from each
other, she slips off her high heels under the table and brings her
feet up to my crotch, slowly working them up and down and getting me
hard. After the meal, we leave the restaurant and go home. Then I
totally have my way with her and her feet. Fantasy #2 - Two very
attractive women with very attractive feet who know I have a foot
fetish get together and seduce me using their feet. I end up
massaging, kissing and licking their feet, suck on their toes, etc..
It all culminates with a footjob given to me by both women at the
same time.
Posted by (Member # 2489)
One
fantasy would be to (this may sound more crazy than impossible) is
to have all my ex's and have my own private foot session. Multiple
pairs of feet is such a turn on, especially if they're all wiggling
and spreading their toes (toe spreads rule). Another would be
to kiss and massage a woman with large feet. The bigger the better
sometimes.
Posted by (Member # 1570)
1:
Having my wife fulfill a day-long foot-focused fantasy which would
include: wearing sandals, going barefoot, playing footsie, letting
me play with her feet while driving, massaging her feet, kissing and
licking her feet and culminating with a footjob. 2: Being able to
enjoy the feet of several women at the same time preferably
including my wife who would both do things with the other girl's
feet as well as allow them to do stuff with hers.
Posted by (Member # 2953)
right after long work-day
feet. and to see another woman making love to my wife's feet.
Posted by (Member # 20084)
My top two foot
fantasies. One would be smelling a girl's feet right after she had
come home from work, or a run, and taken off her shoes and socks,
when they were sweaty. Another involves bondage. I fantasize of a
girl chained to a wall, barefoot, as I worship, fondle, and tickle
her feet, and she cant get away, because of being chained.
Posted by (Member # 223)
A footjob from Victoria
Beckham while Billie Piper allows me to smell her feet. Cheryl Hines
demands that I lick all of her high heels until no toeprints remain.
Posted by (Member # 13264)
Something involving a lot
of naked women with their feet in the air somehow. Perhaps laying on
their backs, like a field of tall grass except legs, and then
exploring it. Maybe a variation on the previous involving some kind
of naked crowd surfing. I really don't know, when I fantasize it
tends to be more abstract and disjoint imagery than specific images
or ideas.
Posted by (Member # 2895)
really
hard to say... but here goes. dinner for two.. woman has had her heels for
about 4 hours prior to dinner. at some point.. she places her
heeled feet on my lap.. i remove the shoe.. start to massage her
feet. her feet are close enough to me (and not covered by the
table cloth) so i can enjoy the aroma (as faint as it may be)..
and after the massage.. she proceeds to rub me and arouse me...
you get the picture.
second one.. a good long day out on the town.. she's worn her
heels for a while.. we get back to our place.. i take her heels
off. massage her feet. nibble on her toes.. at some point..
she'll press her hosed feet against my chest and using her
toes.. massage my chest.. then slip slowly lower to my abs.
then.. i remove her hose... massage some more.. then.. while we
start to make out.. she continues to rub her feet all over me.
Posted by (Member # 6786)
a. 2 woman, 20
toes...preferably Asian women. Getting a footjob while the other one
blows me. b. A totally unexpected/spontaneous foot fetish adventure
with a stranger or a co-worker maybe. Something totally out of
nowhere that involved a lot of teasing, her sucking her own toes and
seducing me. Maybe she knew or heard about my fetish and goes about
teasing me into a seduction using her feet.
Posted by (Member # 6641)
I am a bit of a tickle lover as well,
so my first fantasy would to have my own feet in stocks and tickled
by a woman's toes, id really like it to tickle loads. And when im
out of breath finish me off with a nice soft, slow foot-job, that
would be the second fantasy although its sort of part 2 to the
first.
Posted by (Member # 6829)
Major connoisseur!
[Smile]
Posted by (Member # 26926)
I'd say
I'm pretty experienced for my age but feet aren't in a total control
of my sexuality.
Posted by (Member # 6635)
i
am about a 10 out of 10 when it comes to loving female feet, i cant
say im a connoisseur because i don't know exactly what kind of
female feet will turn me on at any particular moment, i have my
favorite types, but they aren't necessarily the types that will turn
me on the most at any given time.
Posted by
(Member # 983)
Connoisseur...but what's interesting is that what I
find "perfect" may actually serve as a turn-off for the next footguy.
So I think you'll find a lot of us considering ourselves to be
connoisseurs, but we're only connoisseurs for ourselves. Our
standards aren't universal by any means. Why else do you think so
many different types of foot sites exist?
Posted by (Member # 2627)
I would say I'm a connoisseur, since I've
had a foot fetish since childhood and have had my share of
experiences with women involving their feet.
Posted by (Member # 2489)
A connoisseur i guess. It
can all be based on your liking. One may think ones feet are too
small, toes too short, soles too wide etc. I guess we just and
critique, like a wine tasting. "her soles are great but she's got
long toes, I hate long toes" <--- just and example, cause i love
long toes.
Posted by (Member # 1570)
Definitely a connoisseur. I've had my fetish now for thirty some
years and have seen a lot of feet! Fortunately I finally told my
wife about my fetish and she has totally indulged me in all my
desires, doing things I NEVER thought she'd do.
Posted by (Member # 2953)
i don't need feet to come
but i don't want to come without them.
Posted by (Member # 20084)
I have an extreme foot fetish. I
don't think I could stay with a partner long term where I could not
be in contact with her bare feet at least sometimes.
Posted by (Member # 223)
A connoisseur
Posted by (Member # 13264)
Connoisseur naturally...
Posted by (Member # 2895)
I don't call it a
fetish.. that doesn't really fit the bill. i have a keen interest
and am quite knowledgeable. but it's not necessary to have in any
regular amounts or at any given point in time. (yeah alot of folks
here have questioned that position of mines)
Posted by (Member # 6786)
connoisseur
Posted by (Member # 6641)
I would say i am a
novice, i have yet to experience anything i have mentioned to any
magnitude, only minor none intentional experiences. I regard myself
as a foot lover, not fetishist as it isn't the only thing i am into,
and i don't rely on it to get sexually aroused, its just a turn on
like boobs or butts to the next guy.
Posted by (Member # 6829)
I like girls who love
going barefooted, and love foot massages. Turn off would be a lady
who hates her feet, and thinks I'm a weirdo.
Posted by (Member # 26926)
Turn on is a girl who's
totally liberal about foot fetish and turn off is total otherwise.
Posted by (Member # 6635)
i dont think i can say ive
been turned off (yet) by anything a girl who is indulging my
footlove has done, by turn ONs for me are: (after we have had a few
experiences) if there isnt much talk about what she is going to do
with her feet or what i am going to do, more just absent minded
teasing moving smoothly into whatever...it is a big turn on for a
girlfriend of mine to feel very free with her feet (away from but
not excluding in the bedroom), to wear lots of revealing shoes or
slip on shoes and to like to chill a lot with her feet out, or just
plain barefoot (around the house especially), basically im very into
foot teasing
Posted by (Member # 983)
Turn-Offs:
*socks (toe socks especially)
*smelly feet
*hating to go barefoot
*any kind of shoes (sandals and flip-flops included)
*unkempt toenails
*hammer toes
Turn-Ons:
*loving or willing to go barefoot everywhere she can get away
with it
*pride and care taken in her feet
Posted by (Member # 2627)
I would advise a woman
to take care of her feet. After all, they turn me on and it would be
unattractive to me if she didn't keep her feet looking good via
pedicures and wearing various colors of toenail polish. Also, a
woman should be open to getting foot massages and having her feet
touched, played with, etc.. It's even better if the sensations of a
foot massage and toe sucking feel erotic to her. Shoes that reveal
her feet are definitely welcome. Boots would not be, not to mention
socks. Although, socks sometimes just can't be avoided due to attire
and what the climate may be. A definite turn off is a woman who is
narrow-minded and refuses to try anything sensual or sexual with her
feet and/or won't let anyone touch them and thinks it's "weird" that
someone could be attracted to her feet.
Posted by (Member # 2489)
Turn-offs
toes that are bitten.
self concious women about their feet.
unkept nails.
unkept feet.
negative and close mindedness towards the whle fetish.
Women that paint, pedicure, buy sexy shoes, and hate the
attention their feet may recieve.
Calling us foot freaks
Turn ons
Good upkeep
lotion
foot flirting
feet talk
open mindedness about it
thinking (hopefully knowing soon) that the ftish is normal like
guy liking boobs
Posted by (Member # 1570)
I think the most we as footguys can hope for, is a girl who is open-minded and will at
least let her man discuss and try foot things with her. The biggest
turn-off for me is hearing girls emphatically say "Ewe, feet are
gross." Other turn-offs:
-Feet that are not well cared for
-Women that show off their feet (pedicures, sexy shoes, foot
jewlery) but hate the attention their feet may recieve.
Turn ons:
-Well cared for feet in general
-Augmented foot beauty: pedicures, foot jewlery, sexy shoes
-Flirting with their feet/shoes
-Foot talk, both in general conversation as well as during
foreplay and sex
-Accepting that the fetish is no different than any other
attraction or fetish that guys have.
Though my wife never openly said it, she thought very little of
her feet, and though she had heard of foot fetishists, had never
dreamed anyone would be sexually attracted to hers. In addition,
her feet were very ticklish. But after being totally honest with
her about my foot fetish and discussing foot things with her she
now wears foot jewlery for me 24/7, sandals and flip-flops year
around (we're in Florida), and let's me kiss, lick and suck her
feet and toes- finding it very sensual.
Posted by (Member # 2953)
offs- long nails, dirty
feet (not to be confuse with smelly and sweaty feet which i love),
chunky looking feet (the so called "meaty feet"), stockings.
ons- sweaty and smelly feet, long (not too long) toes, sneakers
without socks.
Posted by (Member # 20084)
Turn ons of feet: I like soft soles, red polished toenails, and very
to extremely ticklish feet. I also like wrinkled soles. As for
turnoffs: I dislike hard and calloused soles, and unkempt toenails.
Posted by (Member # 223)
Turn off – her being too
shy about her feet . Turn on – loving the scent of her own feet
Posted by (Member # 13264)
Regarding feet play? I
would count uncleanliness and strong smell as turnoffs, as well as
unmaintained feet. I don't like feet to be the end-all main focus of
sex, rather a favorite parallel event.
Posted by (Member # 2895)
turn ons
-confidence about showing your toes and having them played with
-openness to try whatever i'm into (heels. hose. massages.
nibbling.. etc)
-well kept feet and toes
-some occasional teasing shoeplay
-footsies during romantic moments
turn offs
-shyness
-fear i'll smell her feet
-poorly maintained feet (as in "i play on sandpaper and love
trashing my feet" or never touched lotion ever)
-super stinky feet
-ashy feet
-callous. hard feet. rough feet.
-overly eager to show me you're ok with my interest when in fact
you aren't.. and thus.. act the fool in public and embarrass the
both of us.
Posted by (Member # 6786)
Turn-ons: Indulgence, smiles, red nails,
soles, enthusiasm
Turn offs: Closed mindedness, French pedicures or unpainted
toes, jacked up feet
Posted by (Member # 6641)
Turn ons would be an open minded woman who
would be willing to learn about my desire would enjoy indulging
me this way knowing that she is making me the happiest guy in
the world and knowing that i would return the favor x10 when
she's finished. Also a woman who liked been barefoot and to
tease me with it at times. Turn off
would be a close minded woman who hates her own feet and showing
them, regarding me as some freak or weirdo, or even if she did
accept it, i wouldn't like her to indulge me if its only to
satisfy me when she is hating it on the inside.
Posted by (Member # 6829)
Not really, except for
what I just said in the last question.
Posted by (Member # 26926)
Check last answer. I just couldn't date a
girl who doesn't approve my love for female feet.
Posted by (Member # 6635)
nothing too specific that
hasn't been mentioned above...
Posted by
(Member # 983)
Simply put, she can't be a "prude" about her feet.
Otherwise, see above about the turn-ons and turn-offs.
Posted by (Member # 2627)
I would just say that a
woman's feet can be just as erogenous as any other "normal" part of
her body that guys are turned on by. As such, they can bring a guy a
great amount of pleasure, as well as bring her a great amount of
pleasure via foot massages, toe sucking, etc.. Just be open-minded
about it and give it a try. You may not even realize that you may
be, literally, standing on an overlooked, and very erogenous, part
of your body!
Posted by (Member # 2489)
She
knows that I will never say no to a foot massage.
Posted by (Member # 1570)
Everything! And my wife now
knows them all. Though in my case I kept it from her (for fear of
her thinking me a pervert) for close to 23 years, I finally had to
tell her, and I'm so glad I did.
Posted by
(Member # 2953)
she knows everything i want her to know.
Posted by (Member # 20084)
I would want my
partner to know that feet are an important part of the greater
sexual experience for me, and, that for me to be completely sexually
satisfied, I would need contact with her feet during foreplay and
sex. To be deprived of such, would be an incomplete sexual
experience for me. Hopefully, she would understand that.
Posted by (Member # 223)
I like the smell of female
feet – not “dirty” feet but aromatic fem feet
Posted by (Member # 13264)
I suppose that the
attraction to a woman's feet isn't necessarily the sole fixation
that many people mistakenly believe it to be. Femininity attracts
attention, and a person who has a foot fetish sees the femininity of
a woman's feet. There are other parts of a woman's body that are
more obviously unique to the female, like breasts which enjoy a
larger following. There are parts of a female's body which are very
subtly feminine, like the knee or the clavicle or the jaw line,
which probably enjoy less of a following than feet. There's nothing
distinctly feminine about a woman's elbow which is probably why not
a whole lot of people have an elbow fetish. Essentially those who
find women sexy like any feature on a woman that identifies her as a
woman. I don't think any fetish for any body part is anything more
complicated than that.
Posted by (Member #
2895)
although i love feet.... i rather have my partner's feet than
any other. and when around other feet.. it's not the same as my
partner's feet. denying me your feet (my partner's feet) can be very
hurtful and rejecting. When single.. it's a whole different
ballgame!
Posted by (Member # 6786)
She
knows.
Posted by (Member # 6641)
I think
its important for them to know that im a lover and not a fetishist,
I am interested in the whole of her not just her feet, I suppose its
important for them to know that we arent all the same and not all
foot guys like exactly the same desires, mine been footsie possibly
footjobs even though i have yet to experience one, nothing else
really.
Posted by (Member # 19380)
I've said it to a buddy of mine who is a
titties man... "You to womans tits, is me to womans feet".. He
just cracked up laughing [Laugh] but when it comes down to it,
it explaines a whole lot in one sentence... dont you think?
Posted by (Member # 6829)
I'm attracted to women's feet because. . .
well, I honestly can't explain it! I think it's a beautiful
female body part, but I can't really say why.
Perhaps God intended some of us to be attracted to women's feet.
(Hope this doesn't offend any of you.)
Posted by (Member # 12166)
How about this - "The first time I went down
on a woman I felt a little pervey about that too. But I don't
anymore. That kind of "down" doesn't seem like down to me. It's
really a question of where you draw the line and my line is
simple - any and every part of a woman and nary a single part of
a man." He might not want to admit it but your listener might
remember feeling like that. And then either understand, or shut
up about it. And while he's shut up he's wondering if you might
somehow be braver than he.
So if that's
a setup, a punchline might be something like, "It takes a lot of
courage to do something that some people feel is humiliating,
just because I know it's not." You probably should have another
drink and talk about something else for a while and then come
back to it, like - "Maybe feet have a special appeal because
they're kind of like a last frontier of intimacy in a way. There
are some girls you could have sex with but not touch their feet,
right? As a matter of fact that's how I know a woman really
trusts me - when her feet are not ticklish anymore!!" At this
point your listener probably remembers some girlfriend with
ticklish feet and feels a little more disarmed.
Posted by (Member # 20166)
Someone here made a good point a while ago and
I never forgot it. It went something along the lines of "I'd
rather adore a foot than drool over something that milks babies"
Posted by (Member # 26478)
Personally, I wouldn't admit, or talk about,
it unless I knew the other guy has a thing for women's feet too.
Posted by (Member # 1169)
I always get the "feet smell" and "feet are
dirty" comments. So I say, "so are the asses that you check out
since people shit out of them." That usually causes silence.
Posted by (Member # 2420)
Normally I use the line...Every women deserves
to worshipped and that includes everything about her physically
and others wise...I'm into feet and her feet are a part of
her...So don't they deserved to be adored ?!?!
I've had a few blank expressions and a few I guess so with that
line !
Posted by (Member # 12893)
well quite honestly too many people in the world
w/ so many different personalities combined w/ multiple bodyparts on
females plus multiple visual triggers makes it IMPOSSIBLE for some
to not like feet.
Posted by (Member # 2953)
I have more than one answer to this question,
but one that i would use is the following: " the fact that it
doesn't do anything for you" is one of the reasons i love it
sooo much.
Posted by (Member # 1099)
I don't have a foot fetish, I never had one. I
love a woman's body in it's entirety. I think a woman's feet are
sexy.
It's impossible for to have a 'fetish' per say, for a woman's
foot, UNLESS it has been removed from the original owner. THEN
it becomes a fetish.
I have a nylon and high heel fetish.
Posted by (Member # 1099)
quote:
I've said it to a buddy of mine who is a
titties man... "You to woman's tits, is me to woman's
feet".. He just cracked up laughing [Laugh] but when it
comes down to it, it explains a whole lot in one sentence...
don't you think?
This is correct.
Posted by (Member # 14736)
I have a friend that said why to me about my
foot fetish..." You fuck tits I fuck feet"...enough said. Also
told him to "don't knock it til you try it"
Posted by (Member # 1570)
That my love of feet is just as strong as his
love of whatever body part that he's into.
Posted by (Member # 10394)
A good retort to the general "eww that's
gross" and "wtf, man?" responses:
"I have the ability to see beauty in something that you are
unable to. Am I supposed to feel ashamed of myself?"
Posted by (Member # 12893)
i always say that its not about what you like
but whether or not you get any of what u like.
Posted by (Member # 1280)
quote:
i always say that its not about what you
like but whether or not you get any of what u like.
This is about the way i see it. If i'm rubbin
a girls feet and somebody see's me and says "Ew that's gross" or
anything derogatory, and i know they like ass, or boobs, or what
ever. It's like "Hey man, i don't see you over there rubbin your
girls ass, or chest."
I don't know a guy who can get a boob job under the table at a
restaurant, or certain public gatherings, and i certainly don't
see girls walkin around topless in the summer, (and even the
occasional flip flop wearing girl in the winter) so they aren't
seein bare breasts or asses as we do feet.
And to top it all off, no matter how sexual it really is to us,
the feet are a non sexual oriented and or harmless part of the
body at most times, and by this i mean how we can just give a
foot massage and do nothing else while its still a turn on, but
not really be denied the pleasure of doing so because the girl
enjoys it as well. How many guys have been told yes, to the
question "would you like me to massage your breasts?"
pffft. I love my affection for female feet.
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