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Types of Fetishes
Number 10
Stomachs
Men and women both agreed that taut
tummies make them somewhat crazy. But others said that
they would never bed a potential partner if their
tummies protruded or hung loosely.
Some guys weren't as picky and admitted that they liked
it when a woman had a tummy with a teensy-weensy little
pot. One gentleman was very adamant about needing to
release himself on a woman's stomach or his experience
simply wouldn't be pleasurable.
Number 9
Body piercing
This one was quite popular with the
younger crowd (18-35). Everything from bellybuttons,
tongues and nipples to eyebrows and penises was not only
acceptable, but for a specific few, it was a
prerequisite.
One guy told us that he loves tongue rings because after
being pleasured by a girl who had one, he couldn't go
back to the "ordinary." The feeling of the cool object
rubbing against his penis while her hot mouth engulfed
him "felt like heaven."
Number 8
Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex
Men seem to love material; perhaps not
the actual feel of it, but the rather pornographic
quality it gives to a sexual encounter. Although men
look to settle down with a sweet woman, most will
forever have a fixation with that "bad girl" look.
"Watching a woman move around in anything tight and
shiny is a tease in itself," says one gentleman. Another
man told me that his girlfriend's entire wardrobe
consists of latex and leather.
Number 7
Domination and submission
To my amazement, most
women dominate and most guys submit. HELLO! A lot of
women said they love to order their men around in bed
like slaves and spank them, smack them, and even
penetrate them with a strap-on.
Guys, on the other hand, enjoy submitting to women and
being told what to do. I guess most of them are probably
tired of performing all the time. Everything I mentioned
that the women do -- well, the men enjoy having those
things done to them. Welcome to the new millennium.
Number 6
Feet and hands
You knew this fetish was coming didn't
you? Men enjoy licking, sucking,
kissing, and biting women's feet almost exclusively.
Some guys simply can't date a woman if she has ugly feet
or toes.
Women, I was surprised to learn, love to suck on men's
fingers and some can even
orgasm off that alone. "There's something about
pleasuring a man's finger as though it was a penis that
gives me orgasmic pleasure," said one woman from
Seattle. Number 5
Fingernails and lipstick
It's the cliché of the '80s: red lipstick
and long, red-lacquered fingernails. Well, guess what?
Some guys are still obsessed with that whole thing. They
enjoy feeling a woman's nails running down their backs.
As well, they like kissing a woman and smudging her
lipstick all over both their faces. Why? Because it
gives them the feeling of having adulterated sex, i.e.
sex with a prostitute.
Number 4
Braids, ponytails, pigtails
Hair, it's no surprise, was a very big
fetish among guys. Blond, brunette, redheaded, braided,
long, short, thick, curly, straight... you name it, they
thought of it. But braids, pigtails and ponytails caught
my attention. I have two theories as to why some men are
into pigtails.
First, they have a preference for younger women (to say
the least) and because of the illusion that pigtails and
ponytails emanate, the fetishists feel as though they
are fulfilling their desires.
Second, when the hair is tied up in these various ways,
it could resemble a whip, to a certain extent. "Women
can whip me with their hair: the ultimate turn-on." said
one man from Boston. I can definitely see the latter
example as working.
Some women have a fetish involving no hair: bald men.
They love rubbing a man's bald head whilst in a
passionate embrace. Did you hear that Costanza ? You're
actually preferred by women.
Number 3
Water
Believe it or not, many variants of water
were popular with both men and women. Many women
declared that they enjoyed sex best when they could hear
or be in running water. Whether it be rain, the shower
or even an opened faucet -- so long as they heard water
of some sort.
Although it's not exactly water, many women (and some
men) absolutely obsess over thunder and lightning. "The
powerful sound and the sudden flashes of light give my
body a feeling of empowerment. My husband and I make
plans to meet whenever we know that a storm is in
effect," said a woman from Colorado.
Number 2
Golden showers
I know this one doesn't sound very
inviting, but it was a popular one. Some guys love to
watch a woman urinate on them as a method of foreplay.
Other guys like to relieve themselves on women before
they can actually get down to business.
Why? Well, the reason for this also deals with
submission. Being peed on is somewhat degrading and if
you allow someone to do it to you, then you're
submitting and if you do it to someone else, then they
are succumbing to you.
Number 1
Voyeurism and exhibitionism
A lot of guys admitted that they couldn't
get off with their partner unless they were watching
pornography or another couple in the act. Even if they
witnessed two people having sex or caught some erotic
movies on television accidentally (yeah, right) when not
with their partner, they had to masturbate.
Only a minute amount of women admitted that they are
voyeuristic to the point where they needed to see sex
whilst engaging in it. Oddly enough, however, quite a
few women like being watched . One woman from New
Orleans wrote, "I make sure to open the blinds fully
before I make love with my partner."
you're not alone.
And there you have it, gentlemen; 10 common fetishes
among the human species. While some fetishes can be seen
as more "particular" than others, most people go through
phases where they obsess about a certain object, act or
body part. Fetishes are highly widespread and are not
abnormal in any way.
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